Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Dispatch Number 57 -Cemetery

Guatemalan cemeteries are pell-mell and without much order when compared with the solemn neatness of North American cemeteries. Here they are filled with colorful tombstones and crypts and a surprising amount of trash. Many crypts are painted in ornate patterns of bright greens, whites and blues. Death is colorful. Murals adorn many. Some are political or artful, while others are wholly incomprehensible such as several crypts painted boldly with American flags with "U.S.A" placed where the stars usually go.

Guatemalan cities with populations over 10,000 are noisy, dirty places with an unappealing new generation of concrete buildings. Economical concrete is ugly and ramshackle with high walls laced in razor wire that make walking about town a penitentiary architectural experience. Will the architecture of this uninspired period charm 300 hundred years from now the way old colonial cities charm the intrepid visitor today?

When the excitement of the busy, noisy and exhaust thick city wears off I seek tranquility in cemeteries and churches. A traveller develops weird habits he would never have back home. Rural public parks are hard to find, the kind with trees and grass, so it is at the cemetery one can hear the birds sing, appreciate the trees and the smell of damp grass amidst a sea of colorful tombstones. Cemeteries are parks of historical significance full of dates and names where local history is told. Here in Nebaj it also represents a dark chapter in Guatemalan history where fifteen crypts set in a row all have the same date.

Guatemala´s Civil War raged on in the late 1970s and 1980s with mass killings committed by both the military and pro-government para military forces. In Nebaj I met a team of young Guatemalans taking lunch. Their pickup was jammed full of gear and covered with a tarp. They were excavators preparing to dig up mass graves in the area; they exhume bodies for possible identification and return to the families. Sometimes their work results in fifteen graves in a row like those in the local cemetery. Their commitment and choice of work was touching. They ate lunch with gusto.

In the cemetery two boys do their homework atop one of the single level crypts, acting as the perfect desk with papers spread over its broad top. I will have to admit that as one who appreciates a good writing surface that the boys had made a great choice. Higher up the hilly array of tombstones two women talk in gentle tones while sitting side by side on a pair of low slung concrete cross.

Atop the hill a group of young girls play on the tombs like they were part of a swing set. They holler ¡Hola!, ¡Hola! over and over, I answer every time, for in Guatemala it is in bad manners to not reply. They keep it up for a while until I pretended to be out of earshot. It is their playground. Their lightheartedness stands in contrast to the backdrop of the cemetery. They were curious girls who were happy, playful and shy like children everywhere.

Even though I am not a believer in caskets, worms and rot I do respect these grounds and found myself shaking my head in mild disapproval when a man rode his motorcycle through the cemetery with a woman on back; they laughed with new lover joy as the bike sputtered to and fro and finally exited under a wisp of giggles.

David
Valledupar, Colombia

11 comments:

Dana said...

Here is a quote you might like from a journalist you might also enjoy.
http://markmorford.com/
The quote is from an article he wrote about Tiger Woods

I think it sums up some of the shit of this country.


"So I slept with a gay hooker and enjoy a line of blow now and then. This really matters? You really care? We are flawed and silly species, each and every one of us. If we don't laugh and dance and face our demons like the grinning, preposterous monkeys we so very much are, we're all dead anyway. Who wants wine?"

Traveling Dave said...

Dana,
Infidelity and America's moral preoccupation with things considered immoral...it works very well to keep people from serious discussion of social issues and politics while successfully keeping them on team sports and celebrity lives.

Yes, we are walking dead who nurse the cathode ray nipple of tv. A glass of red for me.
David
Pueblo Bello, Colombia

p.s
I am in a mountain town in eastern Colombia called Pueblo Bello. It is one not mentiond in the guide books, this makes me the only foreigner here at the moment in this indiginous community. In fact I have not seen another backpacker in almost three weeks. Off the beaten track travel. I am taking the slow off-pavement roads to get back to Cartagena to study Spanish for a couple weeks. I will need a visa extension -I love Colombia.

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Dana said...

Dave,

The mountain range of the town looks amazing. I love places like this. In Peru you might want to check out the Corderilla Blanca range.

My husband is one of these 'indigenous' type people. He grew up in the mountains of the Everest region without electricity and in a house made of cow paddy and rocks. His family farms and has buffalo, goats, chicken's etc. He is from the old way of life. You would like him very very rich in the soul and spirit. We are taking our son to his village in Oct. It is a two day hike in from a small airport in the mountain.

Nepal has some amazing mountains and villages but it is changing as things always do.

Dave I am happy to know someone like you. It inspires me to get off my ass and jump from this corporate bullshit I so don't like. Hopefully I will get up the guts to do it soon.

I need to spell check before I post.

Traveling Dave said...

Dana,

I am made very happy hearing my story strikes something in you. You know something is amiss and want to find the courage to make a small change.

From when I really began to make change to today, happened over a five year period. If I made it appear as if I got up from my desk one day and changed it would be deceptive. I kept listening to instinct and some friends (who posed simple yet effective questions for me to ponder.) At the time they did not know how good they were for me and neither did I.

David

Dana said...

Dave,

What were you doing for work during those 5 years? Still in high-tech sales? That is the main issue for me is finding a way to make money that doesn't take up so much time and I don't have to be in the Corporate Sales game anymore. Tired, tired of the bullshit and the mentality of a lot sales people, money, greed, insecurity..look at me...all about your number buddy.

I was hopping my time off in 2003 would help me figure it out and still I am here.

Did you feel any shaking all the way in Columbia?

Traveling Dave said...

Dana,

I worked in a Safeway grocery store for 2 1/2 years as an assistance manager in the produce department (what I did in high school and university years) I went back because I did not know what I wanted to do for work. It was really hard to do, since it felt like a big step in another old direction. I had to confront the elitism I felt coming from high tech and began to break down those false constructions.

Turns out it was fantastic. The people I met were more real than any I worked with in high tech and the line of work and low pay humbled me and was one key step to making my life with less.

Number One: if you really want to leave high tech it is a question of changing your standard of living. Something simpler and less expensive. For me I sold a loft, bought less, ate out less and so forth. I felt better.

On this journey into The Americas my burn rate comes in on average at $800 per month, less than 10k per year. I won`t have anything left when this is done, but that hardly matters, I am doing something I really want to do.

Dana said...

I love it Dave!! My husband works in the produce dept at Whole Foods. I don't know if he has found his co-workers as deep, but people treat you differently when you are from another country. It is strange I have to admit and too long to write about.

High-tech society is a different bread there are some real people you can find you just have to dig and dig deeper.

$800 a month is good and who gives a shit if you don't have anything when you get back you will be better for it. Hey you can come back to high-tech sales :).

Hey you might fall in love and end up living in South America who knows.

Do you have an end date? Or can you go on for another few years traveling?

Buenas Noches

Traveling Dave said...

Dana,
Whole foods...cool. The people were not deep at Safeway, they just felt like family to me since it was the time my career was changing and I had indentity/ego issues about that, and I was in the early stages of divorce.

No end date. Love is possible, however, my love of travel so far has kept me on the road. How many ways to say goodbye when living the life of a nomad?

Calamar, Colombia

Dana said...

You need to post some stories about your love life. That stuff is interesting and fun. Love on the road, it is much easier to walk away from those.

Traveling is a great drug to be addicted to.

Good for you with no end date. Travel as long as you can.